Sunday, August 7, 2011

thank you everyone

I have put the post in drafts
I haven't deleted it
I have your comments still
thank you all for your kindness
and love
I meant to close the comments
but forgot
but it means I have your kindness here now
and I really appreciate it

I don't want this on the front page anymore
it's too hard to look at
I'm here
waiting to find out what's next




xxx

Saturday, August 6, 2011

sometimes



the nothing becomes a something
and
sometimes a something is almost too much to bear
so one wants to stay in the nothing


there was a house fire last evening
six houses up the road from us
it is the house of a friend of ours
a friend we have had for a very long time

my friend didn't make it out of the fire
and her husband is in the burn unit in Richmond Va
with 3rd degree burns
and a broken heart

while we were having dinner
my friend died
and
 I can't understand
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Friday, August 5, 2011

friday friends....



with your indulgence
 I am going to spend Fridays
sending you to visit some of my
blog buddies
Flickr friends
favourite places
(if you don't want people coming over to your blog or photo stream
 just let me know  and I won't send them!!!)

:)
I am going to start with

{{{Kim}}}
some of you already know her
from

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which is on hold at the moment
but still there for you to browse through


the reason I start with
Kim
and I can't think of a happier sweeter place to start!!!
is that her blog was the first I started reading when I found these things called
blogs
I had never seen so much colour put together in such a wonderful way

yes
 moi of the beige
of the white and blue
of the plain and simple
!!!!

saw all this colour the way it should be put together
and
I fell in love
 I hovered   I marvelled
 I wondered if I could ever....
I lurked
 a lot
as they call it when you visit but don't comment
then I bumped into her photos on Flickr
and got a bit bolder about commenting
and
over this past summer
I have been following and watching as
Kim
has been posting photos of the lake she lives near!
and recording the lives of the swans and ducks that live there
and other things
some of it has been literally
heartbreaking
great big sobs and huge hot tears
as life and death played out in front of us
(mama swan)


I've been more upset for her than I have for the poor little creatures
who were here for such a short time
because I know how much it hurts to have these encounters with those we share this planet with
even little tiny chicks barely big enough to see
but once they are in your heart
it's so very hard when they die
and Kim has had her share of heartbreak this summer
so deep and so raw
 has been her sadness
it's hard to leave the photos and just ignore that side of life
so I left a few notes of understanding and support
 and she responded in her sweet way
with love and kindness and friendship
and
BTW
Kim doesn't hook or knit or sew
that I know of!!!!!
she has many many
many
other talents
and will be pursuing them soon
and I hope the
one she calls
"little one"
will be the way through to the things she wants and hopes for
and deserves
(on a wing and a prayer)

she has opened a new site

where she has her beautiful photos of all these little cuties
and no it isn't sad or morose
it's a wonderful peaceful beautiful collection of all the things that Kim sees around her
and shares
her flowers
and
her dogs
who are worth the visit just to see them
sweet Maggie May
in all her glory at home



there are so many more beautiful ones of her
but this just gets me!!!


 and once in a while
her cute self
she is a really really sweet lady
kind generous and full of love for all and everything
so please go and visit her at all her sites
and I know you will enjoy her beautiful photos
her two adorable dogs
Maggie and Marley
and get to know Kim
 through her eyes and her words
it's a very pretty sight!!!!


so...there we go...
please let me know if you think this is a good idea
sometimes there is nothing to write about and nothing to show

no one wants to see dead grass, scummy lakes or hostile squirrels

:)
so I thought we may as well go on a little walk-about
without ever having to leave the comfort of our lap tops
desk tops or wherever it is we view the
WWW
you never know you may have a friend waiting out there
or whatever that cheesy saying says  :}
!!!!!!!!

and for those of you without blogs
we have
Flickr!!!

:) :) :)

p s I have Kim's OK to use any photo I want....!!!!
xxx

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

don't understand



but it's just me
I'm popping in because I want to thank those who think what I did yesterday
is good
You have no idea how many photos I took trying to make sense of what I was doing

I saw a tut for this very thing ages ago
but of course I lost it and can't remember where I saw it
and it was so well done
clear and precise and well written

just like I'd do it
if I could
!!!!!
:) :) :) :) :)
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am in a much better mood today
it's dark outside
it's dark inside
it looks cool
coz it's dark
and the reason for the darkness
it's
R -A- I- N- I -N- G
there is wetness outside
the sound of dripping
when I went to the mail box
I got raindrops falling on my head
I smiled
it's very very humid
so it will continue to rain all evening
all evening they said
yeah!
 and it's not as hot but it's still hot


I have a tub full o'yarn
in many bright happy colours
that I seem to have collected over time
they are all the same type so there is no
problem using them

I bought myself one of those hooks that are showing up all over
it was a bit expensive
for a hook of no specialness that I  could see
and I didn't have my
40% off coupon with me so it was
full price
but that's OK
it didn't break the bank!!!!!





then I used it
and I pronounce it
wonderful
(what on earth is wrong with that photo????????????????
how weird
Oh Blogger)




so I took my new hook
and I


started hooking




I shall hook some more
with my new hook
until I have something
bright and beautiful

hope it's raining where it should be raining
and shining where it should be shining

and
in the
Atlantic Ocean
which is to the
East of us
is a developing storm

with the name of

 Emily

my favourite name for a girl

if I had had a daughter
she would be an
EMILY

I didn't have a girl
I had two
sons
who refuse to answer to that name
wimps
!!!!
and the cat was already named when we got her
not that she answers to anything
but the call of the bowl

so all I have to say
to the storm in the Atlantic Ocean
is
COME TO MAMA



:)


















Tuesday, August 2, 2011

how to line a bag on a wing and a prayer...


I am not a sewer
(one that sews)
I do not pretend to be

I can make things with a needle
and even easy things on the machine
I haven't for years
but I suppose if I put my mind to it I could still make a
skirt or blouse or even a pair of pants
but I don't sew much anymore


the other day when I posted the photos of the two little bags I made

 

one of my Flickr friends asked me to show how I line them
she said she always manages to make hers a 1/4" too short
I tend to make mine a tad too big
so let's see if I can find a happy medium
and make one that fits
I took photos as I went along and they are very good
coz there is no light
I won't even mention why

so let's see what a mess we can make
lining a couple of little bags

this one's for you
dutzie....

:)



I usually just flatten the bag out

lay it on the fabric



and cut a half an inch from the edge


see real professional


for the square one


which I had already started to make when I posted
I did the same thing

flatten the bag
cut around the outside 1/2"
sew and fold the top down where needed



only because it's square-ish
I made the bottom flat by sewing in 1.5" on the side seams



see, now it has a flat bottom

oh don't we all wish!!


the knitted bag has 1/2" seams on the sides



and then I laid the lining on the bag
and measured how much to fold the top down



sewed around it

and put it inside the bag
it fit so I pinned it
I decided not to carry the lining all the way up on the sides
as that would have entailed too much cutting and folding and fiddly bits so the lining is straight across the top



the hooked one was just a straight shot all around
it's a tiny bit on the big side
as always
but it fits well enough
then I sew it along the edge using the line of the stitches
and
voila
a little lined bag
for
whatever



I'm now almost finished on something else


just a couple  of tails left to
weave in
and it's done

see this is completely useless for anyone who doesn't know how to line a bag
I know Dutzie does because she did a fantastic professional job on a bag she just made



so this was just coz I said I would


I have a touch of
cabin fever and have not been  a
cheerful charlie of late
so I'm being quiet

I have had it with
summer
droughts
and
republicans

morons

misfits
and

expletive deleteds

I know some of you haven't had a lot of sun or even warmth
well
I envy you
 I would take a wet cold summer over what we have any day
it's so sad to see the flowers and plants just wither away
after such a lovely Spring
the big trees are dropping their leaves
 all the bushes are wilting and it's useless to water because it puts them into stress
the animals are suffering too
panting birds and stressed out squirrels isn't nice to see either
poor little things
even the geese stay in the water all day long
it's too darn hot
on land

♥